问 HN:我父亲去世了,我需要找到自己的方向

4 分•作者: c4kar•3 个月前
我父亲去世已经 38 天 6 个小时了。在我父亲去世前的最后一个月,我被公司解雇了实习岗位。我哭着去了医院,向我父亲倾诉了我的苦衷。他告诉我一句话,至今仍在我耳边回响:“如果当年我考大学有机会进入全国最好的大学,相信我,我会不分昼夜地学习去考。我会想办法,努力学习,考进去。你的职业非常重要。拥有一个好的职业对你家庭的舒适和未来至关重要。”那些话成了我耳边的一颗珍珠耳饰。说完这些,他不断给我建议,希望我能摆脱当时迷茫的道路。 而现在他已经不在了。过去两年,我一直在我的国家(土耳其)学习电气与电子工程,这个学期我发现我对计算机工程的兴趣已经超越了一切。所以我决定转专业,如果上帝允许,我明年将转入计算机工程领域——但我仍然不知道该如何在这个领域发展。我不知道应该学习哪些技术。有时我甚至会怀疑自己是否应该转专业。我开始担心,等我毕业的时候,人工智能会不会已经取代了所有人。 如果我父亲还在,我会问他。他会为我找到最好的出路,我会相信那确实是最好的。但他已经不在了,我孤身一人。我和我的家人一起,继续生活。 今年夏天,我父亲本来要为我找一份实习——我当时一直这样告诉自己。那时我没有任何担忧,但现在我感觉自己漂浮在一个虚空中,我需要有人为我指引方向。我想也许论坛上的某个人可以给我一些建议。我父亲的话还在我耳边回响,我想拥有一个好的职业,就像他所说的那样。也许你能帮帮我。
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It&#x27;s been 38 days and 6 hours since my father passed away. I was let go from my internship during the last month we spent at the hospital. I went to the hospital in tears and poured my heart out to my father. He told me something I can still hear ringing in my ears: &quot;If, when I took the university entrance exam, I had the opportunity to get into the best university in the country, believe me, I would study day and night to get in. I&#x27;d find some way, study hard, and get in. Your profession matters so much. Having a good profession is crucial for your family&#x27;s comfort and future.&quot; Those words became a pearl earring in my ear. After saying this, he kept giving me advice to pull me away from the uncertain path I was on.<p>And now he&#x27;s gone. For the past two years, I&#x27;ve been studying electrical and electronics engineering in my country (Turkey), and this semester I noticed that my interest in computer engineering has surpassed everything else. So I&#x27;ve decided to transfer, and with God&#x27;s permission, I&#x27;ll be switching to computer engineering next year — but I still don&#x27;t know how I should navigate this field. I don&#x27;t know which technologies I should learn. There are times when I even wonder whether I should switch at all. My fears have started to grow that by the time I graduate, AI will have replaced everyone. [1]<p>If my father were here, I&#x27;d ask him. He&#x27;d find the best path for me, and I&#x27;d trust that it was truly the best. But he&#x27;s not here anymore, and I&#x27;m alone. Along with my family, we&#x27;re carrying on with our lives.<p>This summer, my father was going to find me an internship — that&#x27;s what I kept telling myself. I had no worries at all back then, but right now I feel like I&#x27;m drifting in a void, and I need someone to show me a path. I thought maybe someone on this forum could point me in a direction. My father&#x27;s words keep echoing in my ears, and I want to have a good profession, just like he said. Maybe you can help me.<p>[1] https:&#x2F;&#x2F;ai-2040.com&#x2F;?choices=plan-a-root#playbook-insider-pov<p><i>Text was translated from Turkish with GLM-5.2</i>