问 HN:我父亲去世了,我需要找到自己的方向
4 分•作者: c4kar•3 个月前
我父亲去世已经 38 天 6 个小时了。在我父亲去世前的最后一个月,我被公司解雇了实习岗位。我哭着去了医院,向我父亲倾诉了我的苦衷。他告诉我一句话,至今仍在我耳边回响:“如果当年我考大学有机会进入全国最好的大学,相信我,我会不分昼夜地学习去考。我会想办法,努力学习,考进去。你的职业非常重要。拥有一个好的职业对你家庭的舒适和未来至关重要。”那些话成了我耳边的一颗珍珠耳饰。说完这些,他不断给我建议,希望我能摆脱当时迷茫的道路。
而现在他已经不在了。过去两年,我一直在我的国家(土耳其)学习电气与电子工程,这个学期我发现我对计算机工程的兴趣已经超越了一切。所以我决定转专业,如果上帝允许,我明年将转入计算机工程领域——但我仍然不知道该如何在这个领域发展。我不知道应该学习哪些技术。有时我甚至会怀疑自己是否应该转专业。我开始担心,等我毕业的时候,人工智能会不会已经取代了所有人。
如果我父亲还在,我会问他。他会为我找到最好的出路,我会相信那确实是最好的。但他已经不在了,我孤身一人。我和我的家人一起,继续生活。
今年夏天,我父亲本来要为我找一份实习——我当时一直这样告诉自己。那时我没有任何担忧,但现在我感觉自己漂浮在一个虚空中,我需要有人为我指引方向。我想也许论坛上的某个人可以给我一些建议。我父亲的话还在我耳边回响,我想拥有一个好的职业,就像他所说的那样。也许你能帮帮我。
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It's been 38 days and 6 hours since my father passed away. I was let go from my internship during the last month we spent at the hospital. I went to the hospital in tears and poured my heart out to my father. He told me something I can still hear ringing in my ears: "If, when I took the university entrance exam, I had the opportunity to get into the best university in the country, believe me, I would study day and night to get in. I'd find some way, study hard, and get in. Your profession matters so much. Having a good profession is crucial for your family's comfort and future." Those words became a pearl earring in my ear. After saying this, he kept giving me advice to pull me away from the uncertain path I was on.<p>And now he's gone. For the past two years, I've been studying electrical and electronics engineering in my country (Turkey), and this semester I noticed that my interest in computer engineering has surpassed everything else. So I've decided to transfer, and with God's permission, I'll be switching to computer engineering next year — but I still don't know how I should navigate this field. I don't know which technologies I should learn. There are times when I even wonder whether I should switch at all. My fears have started to grow that by the time I graduate, AI will have replaced everyone. [1]<p>If my father were here, I'd ask him. He'd find the best path for me, and I'd trust that it was truly the best. But he's not here anymore, and I'm alone. Along with my family, we're carrying on with our lives.<p>This summer, my father was going to find me an internship — that's what I kept telling myself. I had no worries at all back then, but right now I feel like I'm drifting in a void, and I need someone to show me a path. I thought maybe someone on this forum could point me in a direction. My father's words keep echoing in my ears, and I want to have a good profession, just like he said. Maybe you can help me.<p>[1] https://ai-2040.com/?choices=plan-a-root#playbook-insider-pov<p><i>Text was translated from Turkish with GLM-5.2</i>