尼泊尔籍，失业一年。有什么建议吗？
1 分•作者: shivajikobardan•3 天前
我现在处境非常尴尬。<p>我毕业于计算机科学与工程专业，毕业时有点晚。我毕业时已经24岁了。之后我在一家私企工作了2年多。<p>后来我辞掉了工作，准备考政府IT部门的职位，因为它们比较稳定，而且会给BTech毕业生提供官员级别的职位。<p>我已经开始学习9个月了。<p>虽然我有一些积蓄，但我一直和父母住在一起。<p>家里和父亲的关系变得很紧张，在母亲的建议和协调下，我搬到了叔叔家。<p>我在叔叔家住了4个多月了。<p>这段空闲时间里，我一直在为政府职位考试而学习。<p>问题是，每当他们看到我在空闲时间玩的时候，婶婶就会觉得“你看他都在浪费时间”。我不认为他们这样想是错的。在世界上其他任何国家，都不会有人免费养活别人4个多月。<p>现在我已经学完了所有课程。父母和叔叔（尤其是婶婶，她希望我尽快找到工作，这样我就可以搬出他们家了）都希望我找到一份工作。<p>我的感受是什么？<p>- 我现在可以参加任何摆在我面前的政府IT/工程考试。我明白这也需要运气和机会。而且我不能说我不会工作，而是等到27岁再去找政府职位。<p>- 找一份私企的工作很可能是在浪费时间。我这么认为的原因如下。这需要一些学习。我的大部分时间都花在学习计算机科学/工程科目上，为政府IT/CPE职位做准备。我以前使用Linux和服务器。我已经9个月没有碰过Linux命令行了。<p>如果我要重新进入私企，我认为我应该考一些RHCSA/RHCE之类的认证，提升自己的水平，然后申请。但我认为这会浪费时间和资源，因为我没有看到自己在私企IT行业的未来。<p>而且私企的职位（至少是头衔）远低于我的学历。虽然薪水不是。而且人们会认为“我作为一个工程师却在做助理级别的工作”。<p>我觉得我应该进入IT本科教学领域。但获得这样的机会很少，因为我还没有硕士学位。<p>我曾和我的母亲（她以前是小学老师）谈过关于教高中的事情，她插话说：“你将不得不学习与政府职位无关的东西，而且可能要花很多时间在高中上”。<p>她认为找一份IT工作也有助于培养技能。<p>我同意这一点，特别是如果学校教学和IT工作都是全职的话。<p>如果我有机会，我也很乐意做一些非IT工作。例如：内容写作等。或者任何不需要大量技能和学习曲线的工作。
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I am in a spectacular situation.<p>I graduated from CSE degree a bit late. I was 24 by the time I graduated. Then I worked in private firm for 2+ years.<p>Then I quitted my job to prepare for Government IT jobs because they were stable, gave a Officer Level role for someone who is a BTech graduate.<p>It has been 9 months since I started studying.<p>Although I have little bit of savings, I was living with my parents.<p>The household situation got really toxic with my father and I moved to my uncle's house(based on my mother's suggestion and coordination with uncle).<p>I have been staying at my uncle's house for 4+ months.<p>All I have been doing is studying for government job in this free time.<p>The problem is whenever they see me playing in my free time, the aunt feels "Oh look he is wasting time". I do not think they are wrong to feel so. In no other countries of the world would anyone feed someone for free for 4+ months.<p>Now I am done with syllabus. And the expectations from my parents and uncle(specially the aunt wants to get me a job quickly so that I move out from their home) is for me to get a job.<p>What I feel?<p>- I can now crack any government IT/engineering exams that appear in front of me. I understand that it is also a matter of luck and chance. And I cannot say I will not work and wait for the government job at the age of 27.<p>- getting a private firm job will mostly be a waste of time. Here is why I believe so. There will be some learning required. Most of my time has gone into studying computer science/engineering subjects for government IT/CPE jobs. I used to work with linux and servers. It has been 9 months since I have touched the Linux CLI.<p>If I am to re-enter private sector, I think I should do some RHCSA/RHCE type of certifications, build up my level and apply. But I find that waste of time and resources because I do not see my future in private IT sector.<p>Plus the private sector roles(at least the title) are way below my academic qualifications. Although the salary is not. And people have that perception that "I am doing assistant level work as an engineer".<p>I feel I should enter teaching field for Bachelors in IT. But getting such a chance is rare as I do not already have a Masters degree.<p>I talked with my mother(who used to be a teacher for elementary school in those days) regarding teaching High School kids and she interfered telling "You will have to study what is not relevant for government jobs and probably dedicate lots of work hours to high school".<p>She believes getting an IT job will help build skills as well.<p>I agree on that specially if both school teaching and IT jobs are full time.<p>If I had a chance, I would love to do some non-IT jobs as well. For example: Content writing etc. Or any other jobs that do not require huge skillset and learning curve.