提问 HN:自闭症谱系人士,如何才能更好地生活?
3 分•作者: beaunative•4 个月前
我从小就非常注重逻辑,而且对阅读有着近乎痴迷的兴趣。我很早就开始接触编程,从幼儿园起就开始制作 Flash 动画。我一直与同龄人和老师相处不融洽,经常受到欺负,这给我带来了很多情绪困扰。我总是有种不断钻研让我着迷的事物的冲动,会去读百科全书之类的书。当时我并不知道,但现在我怀疑自己可能属于自闭症谱系。我想,在 HN 社区里,也有很多人有类似经历,或者怀疑自己也属于谱系吧?成长过程中确实很痛苦,因为大多数同龄人的思维方式和你不一样,通常老师也一样。我以前认为这仅仅是智力水平差异的问题,但现在看来,这可能更多地与是否属于谱系有关。如果你也有类似的经历,你最好的建议是什么?你对如何应对有什么建议?我很想听听你们的人生故事和一般性的建议,我应该去寻求正式诊断吗?
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I've been highly logical and obsessive with reading since early childhood, and I got into programming pretty early and built Flash animation since kindergarten. I've always had issues with my peers and teachers, I got bullied quite often, and it was a source of emotional distress. I felt the constant need to work on things that intrigues me, and I'd read books like encyclopedia, I didn't know that then, but I now suspect myself to be on the spectrum. I believe many in the HN community have or suspected themselves to be on a spectrum as well? It's pretty traumatizing growing up because most other kids don't think the way you do, this usually means your teachers don't think like you as well. I used to think it's purely based on the metrics of intelligence alone, but now it seems it's more to do with being on the spectrum. If you've been on the spectrum as well, what's your best advice, and what's your suggestion on managing that? I want to hear life stories and general advices, should I get a proper diagnosis?