问 HN：分析信用卡账单以证明未购买酒精
2 分•作者: bryanrasmussen•4 个月前
为什么？显然，我被指控是酒鬼，这让我很恼火，因为我不喝酒。如果我觉得不喝会让别人觉得不礼貌，我也可以喝一点，但上次这么做，如果我没记错的话，是在2014年，而再上一次可能是在2009年之前。我不太喜欢喝酒，而且我的父母都是酒鬼，所以我认为这比其他人所认为的更具侮辱性。
简单介绍一下为什么人们会认为我是酒鬼：我有一个患有严重自闭症和发育障碍的儿子，我们很确定他也有多动症，而我是唯一照顾他的人（现在我得到了政府的帮助来照看他，但我仍然经常需要花几天时间从早上7点到晚上10点照看他，而且如果他在夜里兴奋地醒来，想在房间里跑来跑去大喊几个小时，我也得管），所以我大部分时间都很疲惫，而且我也有一些因为过度劳累而引起的健康问题，这让我走路时有时会感到疼痛。
所以我理解为什么有人会认为我是酒鬼。
关于这件事让我变得好斗的原因：指控我的人是他的学校，他们知道除了政府提供的帮助外，我才是他唯一的照护者。这是由于几周前发生的一件事，如果当时有车经过，他在我的照看下就会在街上遇到麻烦（如果你想知道，我可以详细描述这件事，但这会很长）。
他们决定写一份报告，说我喝醉了去接他。这份报告充满了半真半假，以及一些潜在的谎言，还侮辱我说我喝醉了。不仅如此，他们还声称，有人看到我在当地的火车站喝啤酒，那里有一家便利店。
当我表示他们搞错了，我不喝酒时，他们坚持自己的说法，并且不为此道歉。当我的前妻说“在布莱恩身上发生的所有事情中，喝酒绝对不是其中之一”时，他们仍然坚持自己的说法。
我目前已经做的事情：我从我的医生那里获得了一份自2018年以来的公证医生声明，说明了我的健康问题，这些问题可能会让人们认为这家伙现在看起来像喝醉了，并且他从未在我的血液样本和其他实验室检查中看到任何饮酒问题的迹象，结合我自他认识我以来在医疗问卷中给出的所有声明，都表明我不喝酒。
我收到了便利店工作人员的声明，说明我从未从他们那里买过任何酒，而且我总是买热咖啡或星巴克的三倍浓缩咖啡罐。有一个人认为学校可能以为那是啤酒，因为罐子是绿色的，但它们真的不像啤酒罐。
多年来，来自工作伙伴和朋友的声明表明，我从未表现出对喝酒的兴趣。
所以，我现在想做的是，正如我所要求的，分析我的银行记录中的信用卡交易，证明我没有买酒，这样做对于便利店来说应该相对容易，我从他们那里进行的交易可以显示出与他们愿意作证的交易金额相符。
但我在想，虽然无法看到我是否买酒，但我能做些什么来分析我的银行记录，以表明我的购买历史与有饮酒问题的人的预期购买历史不符吗？显然，我不去酒吧。
不幸的是，我没有保存购物的信用卡交易记录，所以我无法证明我从未买过酒，但我可以从这个月开始保存，这可以表明我目前不买酒，并且可以被认为表明最近几个月没有异常情况。
显然，这可能看起来反应过度，但我不喜欢被指控喝醉、被撒谎，以及被监视得如此无能，以至于监视人员把一罐星巴克当成啤酒。
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