你如何在网上建立友谊？
1 分•作者: genkoph•9 个月前
TL;DR:
* Web 开发者没有技术圈的朋友
* 他在本地找不到这样的朋友
* 他想在网上建立新的友谊
* 他不确定该怎么做
四年前，我找到第一份 Web 开发者工作，在那里我结交了很多朋友，可以和他们聊技术、创业、编程等等。我把这些朋友称为“技术圈的朋友”。当时我们在办公室工作，但过了一段时间，公司完全远程办公了，我决定搬回老家，在那里工作。
几年过去了，公司的结构逐渐变化，人员流失，在某个时刻，我意识到我渐渐地与我最初也是唯一的技术圈的朋友们疏远了，失去了联系。我也没能和不断变化的远程同事们建立起那种联系。
几个月前，由于严重的倦怠，我决定暂时离开朝九晚五的工作，最近我意识到了一件事。现在我没有工作，也没有同事，我失去了唯一一个可以谈论技术的渠道，这真的让我很受伤。
我的家乡没有技术圈，所以我决定尝试在网上建立友谊，特别是在 X 平台上，但我对其他平台也持开放态度。我听说很多人在网上认识了朋友，但我从未有过这种经历，我不知道该怎么做。
在 X 平台上，我真诚地赞美别人，我试着与他们互动，但我不知道如何从那里真正地发展下去，并尝试建立联系。
我应该尝试加入一些社区、参加一些黑客马拉松、直接给人们发消息等等吗？
任何直接或间接的建议都将有所帮助，谢谢！
附：如果你感兴趣，我很乐意结交一些新朋友！在 X 上给我发消息：https://x.com/genkoph
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tldr:
- web developer doesn't have any tech friends
- he can't find such friends locally
- he wants to build new friendships online
- he's not sure how to go about it<p>More than 4 years ago, I got my first job as a web developer where I found a lot of friends that I could talk to about tech, startups, programming, etc. I call those friends "tech friends". At the time we were working in an office but after some time, the company went fully remote and I decided to move back to my hometown and work from there.<p>As the years passed, the company structure gradually changed, people left and at some point, I realized I had slowly grown apart from and lost touch with my original and only tech friends. I also wasn’t able to replicate those connections with my ever-changing remote colleagues.<p>A few months ago, I decided that I'd take a break from 9-5 due to a deep burnout and recently I realized something. Now that I’m not employed and don’t have colleagues, I’ve lost my only outlet to talk about tech and that really hurts.<p>My hometown doesn't have a tech scene so I decided to try building friendships online, particularly on X but I'm open to other platforms. I've heard many people say that they've met friends online but I've never been in that position and I'm not sure how to go about it.<p>On X, I'm giving people genuine compliments, I try to interact with them, but I don't know how to actually progress from there and try to form a connection.<p>Should I try joining some communities, doing some hackatons, messaging people directly, etc.?<p>Any direct or indirect tips would be helpful, thank you!<p>P.S. If you're interested, I’d be happy to make some new friends! Message me on X: https://x.com/genkoph