Ask HN: 各位如何调整性格以在面试中表现更好？
18 分•作者: tombert•9 个月前
我刚被一家公司拒绝了，这让我非常恼火，比我预想的还要严重。（在我的律师（ChatGPT）的建议下，我不会透露这家公司的名字。）
这真的让我很生气；我花了四周时间做了三次面试，而且我相当确定我的技术问题都答对了。可能是我的简历太“跳跃”了，这很合理，但他们本可以在浪费我和他们自己的时间，进行三次耗时数小时的面试之前，先看看我的简历。
我唯一能想到的就是他们在面试中不喜欢我的个性，这真的最让人沮丧。如果我在技术部分搞砸了，那我可以努力学习更多技术知识来改进，但我不太确定我的个性到底在面试中出了什么问题，更不确定我应该怎么改变它。
很难保持动力，但我想我别无选择，因为我仍然需要支付我的抵押贷款，所以我很好奇这里有没有人能提供一些建议，告诉我如何最好地调整我的个性，以便在面试中表现更好？最好我能保持诚实（即使仅仅是因为我是一个非常糟糕的骗子）。
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I just got declined for a job and it has gotten under my skin much more than it should.<p>(Under the advisement of my lawyer (ChatGPT) I won't say the company's name).<p>It has really annoyed me; I ended up doing three interviews over the course of four weeks, and I'm pretty confident that I got the technical questions right. It could be that my resume is too "jumpy", which is fair, but they could have read my resume before they wasted my time and theirs with three multi-hour interviews.<p>The only thing I can think of is that they just didn't like my personality during the interviews, which is honestly the most frustrating. If I had messed up the technical portion then that would be a goal to work towards by learning more technical stuff, but I'm not 100% sure what about my personality is screwing up these interviews, and even less sure on how I'm supposed to change anything about it.<p>It's hard to stay motivated but I guess I don't have much of a choice since I still need to pay my mortgage, so I was curious if anyone here had any advice on how to best tune my personality to do better in interviews? Preferably I'd prefer to stay honest (if for no other reason than I'm a pretty terrible liar).