HN 用户提问:想裸辞,但还没找到下家
6 分•作者: bsjak•10 个月前
我目前的工作环境非常恶劣,这已经开始对我的工作之外的生活产生了负面影响。我有一些积蓄,生活也不算奢靡,并且有大约7年的工作经验,但我知道目前的就业市场有多么严峻,这让我很担心。而且,我如果离开现在的公司,时间大概会在年底,那时候招聘的人本来就不多。
当我和朋友和同事们讨论该怎么办时,我得到的建议总是千篇一律,要么是找到下家再辞职,要么是等到被公司解雇,但无论如何,都不要在没有拿到offer的情况下就离职。
我大致同意他们的看法,但我现在真的已经身心俱疲,每天工作10个小时回家后,根本没有精力再开始准备面试。理想情况下,我希望有时间充分准备面试,认真思考我下一步想做什么,而不是因为迫切想离开现在的工作,就随便接受一个offer。
我现在的人生阶段,不想为了拿到下一份薪水而牺牲我的心理健康,但也许我这样做很傻,只是需要咬牙坚持下去。
有没有人经历过类似的情况?
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I’m currently working in a very toxic environment and it’s starting to affect my life outside of work in negative ways. I have money saved up, don’t live an extravagant lifestyle, and have around 7 years of experience but I do know how challenging the job market has been which worries me. I would also be leaving my current company towards the end of the year when not many people are hiring.<p>When asking my friends and colleagues what to do, I always get the same answer of either wait until you find something else to quit or wait until they fire you, but whatever you do don’t leave with no offer in hand.<p>I agree with their approach in general but I’m just really burned out and don’t have the mental energy to come home from a 10 hour day and start preparing for interviews. Ideally I would like time to prepare adequately for interviews and really think about what I want to do next instead of just taking the next thing I’m offered because I’m so desperate to leave my current position.<p>I’m at a point in my life where I don’t want to sacrifice my mental health just to get the next paycheck, but maybe I’m being foolish and just need to get through it.<p>Has anyone navigated a situation like this before?