问 HN：你们的答案都来自哪里？
1 分•作者: Haeuserschlucht•9 个月前
我很好奇，只有我这样吗，还是其他人也这样？
以前，每当我不知道什么事情，可以是任何事情，我都会向别人寻求建议。如果找不到答案，我就上网搜索。我注意到，我对世界的很多看法都来自于外部。当然，也有一部分来自书籍。但通常是这样想的：“好吧，我有一个非常具体的问题，我只需要快速了解一下怎么做。”
当然，论坛上也有恶意的人，所以我在那些提问的地方，构建了许多恶意和令人沮丧的信念，进入了我的内心。
所以我想问，我的脑海中基本上有一个空隙，用来接收答案，我转向互联网，或者其他人，甚至书籍，他们给了我限制性的信念，我把它们构建到我的大脑里。
直到今天，我仍然很难分辨真假。我知道什么时候有人在撒谎，我知道什么时候不对劲，但我无法真正指出是什么。
顺便说一句，如果你暗示自闭症或其他什么，这没有帮助。对我没用，对你也没用，对任何人也没用。
问题是，你是否感同身受？如果你能或曾经感同身受，你做了什么来摆脱这种情况？我只想听你的真实经历，我不想听什么“某个大师的十条规则”，我只想听你真实的经历，你是如何处理的，你是如何摆脱的，以及你如何开始更相信自己的观点，或者你如何找到外部的真相，让你对问题的解决方案如此有把握，或者像雪崩一样给你很多答案。
总的来说，你的答案来源是什么？
PS：目前，人工智能为我填补了这个空白。它比互联网上的喷子好多了，但仍然有偏见。
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I'm curious, is this just me or are other people also doing this?<p>So whenever I used to not know something, and it could be everything, I would turn to other people for advice. And if there wasn't an answer, I would turn to the internet. And I noticed that a lot of my beliefs about the world come from the outside. Also in part it was books. But it was often like, "Alright, so I have this really specific problem, I just need a quick info on how to do it."<p>And of course on forums there's malicious people, so I built a lot of malicious and disempowering beliefs into my psyche at those places where I had the questions.<p>So I have a question, there's basically an opening in my mind to take in the answer, I turn to the internet, or to other people, or to books even, and they gave me limiting beliefs and I built them into my brain.<p>And up to this day I have a hard time figuring out the truth from lies. I know when people are lying, I know when something is off, but I cannot really pinpoint what it is.<p>And by the way, if you are hinting at autism and whatever, this is not helpful. Not for me, not for you, not for anybody.<p>The question is if you can relate. And what you did yourself, if you can or could relate, to get out of this. And only speak from experience, I don't want some "ten rules on how to do whatever" by some guru, but I want your real experience, how you handled this, how you got out of it, and how you started trusting your own opinion more, or how you found truth outside that made you so secure in a solution for problem or gave you a lot of answers at once like an avalanche.<p>Just in general, what is your source for answers?<p>PS: Currently AI fills this void for me. It's much better than internet trolls but it's still biased.